The banks will do EVERYTHING in their power to retain their money (they have a profit to maintain and shareholders to pay). You think they care about you? Even if you are a shareholder.... If you said yes then you are living any where else but here on earth. No, the banks are out for only one thing and that is to preserve their Bottom line, their Profits, their Salaries. And how will they do that, by making sure you accept an loan on their terms so they can make the best of a bad deal that they underwrote to start with. Martin Andelman wrote a splendid article that I advise everyone to read and digest. http://mandelman.ml-implode.com/2009/06/former-sub-prime-lenders-are-back-to-profit-off-the-mess-they-made-seriously/ In this he really makes you understand just a little of what the Banks are all about.
Ask yourself this one question. When you are on hold with your bank do they say "This is an attempt to collect a debt" or do the say "This is an attempt to modify your loan". If they truly had your best intentions in mind they would, (and if they say the latter then go for it), unfortunately I have never heard them say it and most likely will have to wait a very long time before I do (hell will freeze over first in my opinion) but please call me if you do.
If they say it is free, guess what..... they lie. Beware no one works for free, for nothing, not the banks, not the attorneys, not even the government. We, the tax payer are paying them. Who pays those that don't work for the government??? if not you, then who? Are the banks working for free?? don't make me laugh. Will you work for free? If so I have a job for you. Please call 555.5555 Oh and please give me your SS number, date of birth and bank account details aswell. Thank you so much, I'll be in touch.